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A Marriage Counseling Alternative – Over 40 Years Experience

What Can a Couple Married Over 40 Years Teach You About Being Happy and Fulfilled in Your Marriage?

I rarely make endorsements. If I do, it has to be something I’m sure would be a help to you and I’ve recently come across someone who CAN help. They’re called Marriage Team. (more…)

Has Your Spouse Reached The Point Of No Return?

If the two of you have been struggling in your marriage for months or even years, a box of chocolates or flowers for your wife won’t cut it when the resentment from an affair or other events in the past are driving a wedge between you.

A loving card with a hand-written note expressing your love for your husband is not the answer to an endless amount of unresolved issues that have caused the two of you to become more like roommates than husband and wife. (more…)

The #1 Crucial Factor That Determines The Success Or Failure Of Your Marriage

Since women file the majority of divorces, most of the individuals I work with in saving their marriage are men. And for years now I’ve heard these men say this phrase about their wives: “This is not the girl I married.” What these men are talking about is the mother of their children, their wife of five, ten, twenty years!

As you may or may not already know, I’m a Chaos Kid. Today I work with all kinds of troubled couples and have found a pattern in marriages that’s undeniable. (more…)

Mort Fertel Has My Highest Recommendation…

If you’ve been following me for awhile, you may be surprised by what I’m about to do.

I’m going to refer you to someone else in the marriage improvement business.

What’s surprising about this is that I rarely ever do this. (more…)

What REALLY Causes Marriage Problems?

When your marriage is in trouble, every second that goes by is a moment your spouse could be slipping away from you both emotionally and physically.

You need a way to reverse the effects of what happened in your marriage to bring you to the point where you find yourself now - and you need it fast.

And of all the different methods and concepts I teach, over the years I’ve found that the Invisible Lifestyle is by far the most eye-opening of all to couples. (more…)

“Chaos Kid” Internet Radio Series – Part 4

Welcome to the 4th and final installment of my “Chaos Kid” series, where we talked with Keldon and Sandra, a couple who actually got divorced…and then REMARRIED- to each other once again! (more…)

“Chaos Kid” Internet Radio Series – Part 3

Are you ready for Part 3 of my Chaos Kid internet radio series? This time around, we talked with David, one of my Alumni students who once thought his marriage was doomed to end in bitter divorce! (more…)

“Chaos Kid” Internet Radio Series – Part 2

If you’ve been following the “Chaos Kid” radio series I’ve been conducting with Joyful Radio, I’ve just posted Part 2 of the radio series below.

Download the MP3 for later listening here. (more…)

“Chaos Kid” Internet Radio Series – Part 1

Just wanted to give you an update that I’ve completed the first segment of a 4 part internet radio series on Chaos Kids brought to you by Joyful Radio. If you missed the live show, you can download the MP3 for later listening here. (more…)

Reconcilosec: Can a Pill Help You Resolve Family Conflicts?

Okay, you know as well as I do that there’s no “quick fix” for family conflicts, but I found a clever video on what it might look like if there ever WERE a “quick fix” to resolve conflict between family members.

Take a few minutes to watch the short video below, I’m sure you’ll get a much needed laugh this time of year like I did. (more…)